i always thought i was a pretty decent team player until i was asked to behave as a member of a team. last night a canadian friend told me that my rebellion against team-building exercises (such as the much dreaded company employee bowling party next week) was an act of self-sabotage.
maybe she was right. i’ve always been my most capable and dependable saboteur. the question comes down to… what can i sabotage next? another job? another relationship? another performance? who and what will stop me from standing in my own way? why does it always have to be me?